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How to speak dirty in bed without turning him/her off

June 9th, 2011

dirty talk“I’m going to rock your world tonight.  Just wait till you see what I’ve worn underneath these clothes today…absolutely nothing. I’m going to make you scream with pleasure”

What? Did I catch your attention? Well, catching your man’s attention is that simple. Men are simple, straightforward creatures, a few dirty words paint a  sexy picture in his mind and he is good to go for a few hours at least! Great, isn’t it? But how do you talk dirty?  What can make your man pay attention to you?

Feeling shy?

No need to, after all, don’t you want your man to make you happy? Yes you do and believe me, a good girl who suddenly starts spouting naughty, sexy phrases is every man’s dream come true. Men like dirty talk simply because it draws verbal images that turn them on. And the naughtier you are, the better they like it. Taking dirty is also a fun way to keep your relationship alive when you are far away from your man. Imagine whispering dirty nothings in his ear over the phone all day long such that he can’t wait to get home!

Still hesitating?

For newbies at the dirty talk game, here are a few tips to help you out

  • Change your language. Search “dirty talk phrases” on the internet and find sexy French phrases that you can whisper into his ear. Of course, it helps if he understands French. If you aren’t comfortable with French, try some other language like Italian, Spanish etc, all of which say, “I want to polish your knob all night long!”
  • Use the Urban Dictionary. Yes, all you have to do to find dirty words is to search them on the Internet. Synonyms for breasts, penises and vaginae are dime a dozen and easy to remember too.
  • Record naughty messages for him on his phone or text dirty messages to him, while he is at an important meeting. Works right away if you are uncomfortable doing it verbally.

Many women find it difficult to talk dirty simply because they aren’t used to spouting dirty words. But get a good stiff drink and it will help you lose your inhibitions right away.

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Facts That Men Need To Understand About Clitoris

January 18th, 2011

man and clitorisMen have a single button that can be pushed to get them ready to go. Put a hand on their penis and they are up and running. But women have so many erogenous zones on their body that it can be really difficult to get them excited. And the zones differ from woman to woman! But the simplest way to make women putty in your hands is by finding and using her clitoris the right way. And we do mean the right way; too much is literally painful and too little is useless. So here are a few facts every man should know about the female clitoris and how to use it the right way:

Location

Just as men have an erectile tissue called the penis, women have a similar bud like tubular organ in the vagina which works on the same principle. That means clitoral stimulation is equivalent to penis stimulation as the same nerves are present with the same sensitivity. The exact size of the clitoris will vary from female to female but the location never changes. The bud is located anterior to the vaginal opening and just before the urinary orifice. It’s relatively easy to find as its located right underneath the larger labia and has a distinct bud like appearance.

Work it

When you decide to go exploring the delicate female parts, you have to take a few precautions. Long fingernails are a strict no-no, and you better have clean hands. But once you’ve found the mother lode, you’re good to go.

Direct contact on the tip of clitoris is uncomfortable for many women. Start with gentle sideways pressure and rest assured, she’ll let you know when to go faster and harder.

Most women do have female vibrators that they use to stimulate their clitoris. But a new toy is also available that comes with a rubber ring to slide on top of your penis. An extra knobby head is designed to meet with the clitoris on every penetration and it can be battery charged to vibrate. If you’re comfortable with oral sex, gentle blowing or sucking on the clitoris can be really effective.

Just remember that physical manipulation is not enough for any woman as sex is 99% mental for them. A little sexy talk, long and sensual foreplay and gentle sensitive pressure on the clitoris will get her started easily.

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5 tips for perfect oral sex

December 27th, 2010

couple having sex
Oral sex can enhance any person’s sexual experience but there are some things that must be kept in mind before performing/receiving it. Not doing it the right way can really turn things into a nightmare but on the other hand it can become a fantastic practice if you follow these tips below.

1.      Rigorous hygiene is a must !

Whether you decide to take a bath together and increase the tension and excitement before getting into bed, this is one of the most important step before even considering getting oral sex from your girlfriend/boyfriend. Become comfortable one with each other and in the same time keep your hygiene at highest levels. Being clean is not only a must when getting an oral sex but also a sign of self-respect.

2.      Be enthusiastic about what you do

If you are doing this only to pleasure your partner but you are not fully enjoying it, things cannot go on the desired path. Let him/her know you really like what you are doing down there, talk dirty, moan or do anything to let him/her know you really like doing oral sex. The experience will be great !

3.      Gentle or aggressive ?

There are two types of oral sex and being gentle is preferred by a certain type of folks, while the other type by other people. You can be a beast when doing oral sex if you know this is exactly what your partner is looking for or just gentle when your partner isn’t into the aggressive part of oral sex. As when it comes to relationships as well, this can be easily find out by communicating with your half and experimenting.

4.      Lubricants with different flavours

There are tens of lubricants types you could find in erotic shops with different flavours like bananas, grapes, melon and so on. Keep in mind what fruits your partner finds delicious and make her a surprise. She might find out that she enjoys giving oral pleasure more that she could ever imagine.

5.      Always « read her/him »

There are many ways a man can perform oral sex, from licking the clitoris to biting it, playing with your lips on her vagina and so on. Also, women can perform different types of oral sex as well. Always pay attention to what your partner enjoys most, read the body language signs and always try new things, this is the best way of finding out how to best perform oral sex and offer a fantastic time in bed to your lover.

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