How to speak dirty in bed without turning him/her off
What? Did I catch your attention? Well, catching your man’s attention is that simple. Men are simple, straightforward creatures, a few dirty words paint a sexy picture in his mind and he is good to go for a few hours at least! Great, isn’t it? But how do you talk dirty? What can make your man pay attention to you?
No need to, after all, don’t you want your man to make you happy? Yes you do and believe me, a good girl who suddenly starts spouting naughty, sexy phrases is every man’s dream come true. Men like dirty talk simply because it draws verbal images that turn them on. And the naughtier you are, the better they like it. Taking dirty is also a fun way to keep your relationship alive when you are far away from your man. Imagine whispering dirty nothings in his ear over the phone all day long such that he can’t wait to get home!
For newbies at the dirty talk game, here are a few tips to help you out
- Change your language. Search “dirty talk phrases” on the internet and find sexy French phrases that you can whisper into his ear. Of course, it helps if he understands French. If you aren’t comfortable with French, try some other language like Italian, Spanish etc, all of which say, “I want to polish your knob all night long!”
- Use the Urban Dictionary. Yes, all you have to do to find dirty words is to search them on the Internet. Synonyms for breasts, penises and vaginae are dime a dozen and easy to remember too.
- Record naughty messages for him on his phone or text dirty messages to him, while he is at an important meeting. Works right away if you are uncomfortable doing it verbally.
Many women find it difficult to talk dirty simply because they aren’t used to spouting dirty words. But get a good stiff drink and it will help you lose your inhibitions right away.