Human beings are polygamous by nature and would not want to make do with a single partner all through their life if they can help it. However, moral, religious and social compulsions make it difficult for everybody to indulge or get involved in relationships of their choice. This is not to say that everybody is looking for a casual fling and are not happy with their lives. Having said the above, there are many exemplary instances of couples staying loyal to each other and still enjoying each other’s company.
Single men and women are more prone to look for such relationships and also get in and out of relationships with regularity till they find the partner of their choice. Married couples on the other hand experience bliss and contentment in the initial years and very soon that novelty starts fading out and the polygamist in them starts coming to the fore. With men it is usually the thrill of bedding another woman and would not want to get emotionally involved with her, while for women it is normally the emotional vacuum she is experiencing in her current life that is compelling her to look for another partner. Of course, this is not always the case and there are other reasons as well that force individuals into seeking relationships outside their marriage. One of the reasons commonly mentioned is that of boredom, the monotony of life with the same partner and the need to experience something different.
But it must be said that modern technology and in particular the availability of various niche sites in the dating domain has definitely made it pretty easy for both men and women to seek out partners. Married dating sites in particular have really proliferated and that indicates just how many people who are married are trying to seek out other married individuals for various reasons ranging from the thrill of having sex with another married woman to fulfilling the emotional void within them. Sex may always not be the only reason for the coming together of two individuals.
It has to be noted however that the availability of such married dating sites have helped in bringing together two individuals who are on the quest for something which they feel they would get from each other without any commercial considerations or money getting exchanged. Yes, over time, the couple may buy some gifts for each other but that is generally out of affection and admiration for each other rather than compensation for what each has got out of the other partner. The essence of such relationships fructifying out of married dating sites is therefore not always sex with another individual but the need to experience companionship or understanding from the opposite partner and if over time it develops into a satisfying physical relationship, then they are happy with it.
Married men opting for escort services on the other hand are primarily looking for adventurous sex of the kind they have always fantasized about and may not be finding a willing partner in their wife. Here they know that since they are paying handsome money to the escort, they can indicate the kind of relationship they want from the escort partner and will get what they want. The mushrooming of escort services is again a relatively recent phenomenon and it is again the convenience of the internet that has helped this industry thrive.
The fact that such rendezvous with escorts can be kept as discreet and private as possible is a major reason why many married men frequent escort services sites. Besides, sex, many men are also looking for the fulfillment of other fantasies they have in their minds which their current marriage partner may be lacking in. For instance, some may want a woman with particular sophistication and grace while others may want a combination of a woman with whom he can not only share his feelings, discuss anything under the sun intellectually and also enjoy good sex of the kind he has always wanted. The fact that married men do not mind paying for it means that this is a very wide spread requirement.
It is interesting to note that many women too are finding the utility of escort services pretty convenient for them to seek out interesting men with whom they wish to be seen at functions or events. Some even want the thrill of a physical relationship from the escort partner and are willing to pay for it. However, the possibility of an emotional involvement is rather infrequent and not as common when they seek married men from married dating sites.
To summarise, married dating sites and escorts services both meet the needs of married men and women in ways that are unique to the individual.