How often did it happen for you to notice an unshaven guy, with his shirt coming out of the pants and the sleeves rolled up carelessly or a woman with small breasts having just a t-shirt, some jeans and slippers and making you turn your head as they were passing by? Whenever you encounter a person that makes you feel attraction without a particular reason, you can be sure it’s the sex appeal making you crave.
Unseen and odorless, sexiness is a second nature to some of us or just something to work hard in order to get for others. The most interesting thing about it is that it does not even recall beauty, tidiness being more than enough in terms of looks.
You want to know what sex appeal really is and how to make it beam through all your pores? You want to wow your next casual date or just make a sudden and incredibly pleasurable change in your current adult relationship? Then it will help you understanding how sexiness radiates from a healthy and honest self-love, an unwavering self-confidence and the belief that you are someone people enjoy spending time with. Did we mention that it is mostly about attitude?
The attitude you have about yourself will improve others’ attitude towards you in no time. Ever had the feeling that you were ugly when going through a bad day, with a terrible weather and a horrible mood? The worse you feel, the worse you will look. And for a better view on how projections between people work, you looking and feeling great will also make those that surround you to feel great. Your presence will all of a sudden be desired. No one will need to walk on egg shells around you and trying to compliment or please you as you already have a positive attitude about yourself.
If it is related to clothing, you can be sure that it is more on how the clothes you wear make you feel than on how they make you look. Not having to walk stiff because of some very tight high heels and pants or a very short dress makes a great change in your street attitude. Keep the sexy naughty outfits for less public exposures, like the intimacy of your home, and grab the most comfortable clothes you can find when it comes to roaming through the city.
To recap, be independent, flexible and preoccupied of things instead of just bored. Dress casual, add little perfume or anything else that boosts your confidence or simply refreshes you. And smile instead of frowning. Invest time in things that really please you and set you to the relaxation mood. Try to have rest as much as you can so you’ll be in good shape for the most challenging daily situations, regardless if it’s a crazy day at the office or just a sex marathon at sunset. And spice your life as often as you can!